2012年11月27日星期二
Stop Being A Needy And Jealous Man
Being needy and jealous often go hand in hand! If you're a man who recognizes that you fall into this group and you want to do something to change that part of you, then you need this information モンクレール ダウン.
The fact is that to stop being needy as a guy, you need to accept and realize that your girlfriend is 100% allowed to have her own life and she does not have to answer to you to have that life. Accept that fact and then the rest of your attempt to stop being needy as a man will be way easier on you.
Tips To Help You Stop Being Needy as a Man
1) Make sure that you have a life! Stay in contact with your friends and have regular days/nights out with your friends. That way モンクレール ダウン, when your girlfriend decides she wants to see her friends or simply spend some time alone, it won't be a big deal for you.
2) Positively encourage your girlfriend in whatever she wants to do to help her grow. If your girlfriend feels supported and feels that you are giving her the space to grow, instead of hemming and trapping her in a corner where you want her to be ダウン モンクレール, then she will love you the more.
3) Discover what is driving your insecurities because as sure as night follows day, the reason you need to stop being a needy man is because something is making you insecure. If you've had a bad childhood, a bad relationship in the past, if your ability to trust has been damaged www.monclersale.me/forum, then YOU need to address that and not put those negative feelings onto your girlfriend and your relationship. Doing so will severely damage your relationship and might even ruin it for good.
If you need to find a professional to talk to about your problems, then please do so.
4) Enjoy seeing your girlfriend happy. If you genuinely love her, then you want nothing but happiness and the best for her http://www.monclersale.me. You don't want to wind up controlling her life and laying down the law on her. That means you must let her go and come as she pleases. Never try to control her.
5) On the same note, you don't have to like all her friends, but you do have to let her have her friends. And it doesn't matter if those friends are male or female! Trying to stop her having a particular friend or friends because you don't like or trust them モンクレール ダウン, is a surefire way to push her away.
The bottom line to stop being a needy man is to stop trying to hold onto her and asking her to hold you up! You must look after you and she must be allowed to look after herself - only then will the two of you come together in a healthy and nurturing way.
If you fail to stop being a needy man, then your relationship probably won't last as long as you hope and even if you do both manage to hang on to each other, neither of you will be happy.
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